What would you tell this girl?

xxForgedxx · 12-14-2008, 07:43 PM

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Sara · 12-14-2008, 07:45 PM

She's a flaker..she's not interested. I do it to guys all the time.

eazydoezit · 12-14-2008, 07:47 PM

She's a flaker..she's not interested. I do it to guys all the time.

eazydoezit · 12-14-2008, 07:47 PM

I mean girls

xxForgedxx · 12-14-2008, 07:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

She's a flaker..she's not interested. I do it to guys all the time.

Even after...

"I'd really like to make you happy"

"I really like you alot"

sleeps with me 3 times, twice drunk once sober...

constantly affectionate with me when I was around her... makes no sense

Sara · 12-14-2008, 07:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xxForgedxx

Even after...

"I'd really like to make you happy"

"I really like you alot"

sleeps with me 3 times, twice drunk once sober...

constantly affectionate with me when I was around her... makes no sense

I've done it where I really like a guy the first two or three times I see him. Always hug and kiss him always wanna spend time with him then its like eh, Im bored.

Kev · 12-14-2008, 07:50 PM

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Originally Posted by xxForgedxx

Even after...

"I'd really like to make you happy"

"I really like you alot"

sleeps with me 3 times, twice drunk once sober...

constantly affectionate with me when I was around her... makes no sense

Ever heard of back up lover? Either that or she's borderline..... Good luck

xxForgedxx · 12-14-2008, 07:51 PM

I just said "Well have fun, if I'm around when you call then we can probably do something".

To be frank I'm over this shit... same game different name.

WAPCE = women are pure concentrated evil

SLCGoonski · 12-14-2008, 07:53 PM

hit it again...but only when it's convenient for you...live your life

Turbo>NA · 12-14-2008, 07:54 PM

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Originally Posted by eazydoezit

I mean girls

deletedelete · 12-14-2008, 07:56 PM

Wait, u slept with her right? Whats the problem, you won.

magmd · 12-14-2008, 08:20 PM

Dude. Enjoy the fact that all she wants to do is hang out after 10PM and hit it.

Let some other guy pay for all the daytime drama.

Tondtar · 12-14-2008, 08:21 PM

I think she is after your last $100 after reading your earlier post here. Stay away from her :

http://www.e90post.com/forums/showthread.php?t=193400

number335 · 12-14-2008, 08:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

I've done it where I really like a guy the first two or three times I see him. Always hug and kiss him always wanna spend time with him then its like eh, Im bored.

Yeah, women tend to get bored, or distracted easily. When they are around you they like that they are the center of your attention. When they are not around you and have other things to do or friends to hang out with they forget about your attention.

.:bHd:. · 12-14-2008, 08:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xxForgedxx

Even after...

"I'd really like to make you happy"

"I really like you alot"

sleeps with me 3 times, twice drunk once sober...

constantly affectionate with me when I was around her... makes no sense

may be she realized you're not all that great when she was sober haha.. just messing man good luck with that, some girls send the wrong messages without realizing.

And if a girl can get emotionally attached to you so quickly, she can get over you just as quick.

PLAYON · 12-14-2008, 08:29 PM

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Originally Posted by xxForgedxx

Ok so I met a girl on thursday night, texted her friday morning and she invited me to an open bar christmas party. Shes beautiful and seemed very sweet and nice, I got the approval of everyone at the party and she too was very excited she met me. I spent the night and well you know what happened then, she didn't want me to leave the bed in the morning... she even wanted me to call out of work and spend the day with her. She said some things that any normal person would consider kinda deep and I hung out with her later that afternoon after work. She said she wanted to hang out later on that night after I got out of my second job but instead decided she was going to finish her paper and go to bed and gave me the "But I'd love to see you tomorrow".

I am under the assumption that we were hanging out today, so I got the gym out of the way in the morning and at 1pm I called her, she said she was doing a paper and would call me when it was done. 5pm comes around and she said she was done with her paper but going to check on her sister who goes here too and is troubled... ok no biggie. I just get a text from her at 8:30pm saying she was going out with some friends for a drink and "would you wanna meet up later" so I said yeah what do you wanna do? She said it doesn't matter what do you have in mind. I told her it depends on what time and what she'd like to do as well...

How SHOULD I be handling this situation? I am trying to be patient but most of me is saying umm this is bullshit and I'm tired of waiting around to get the later on BS... Am I supposed to be patient in this situation or just say no thanks I've waited around for your ass all day and I'll pass on wasting more of my time on you doing everything else you want to do before and if you even decide to pull through with hanging out.

I've had bad experience in the past with being too blunt and honest saying "Umm well listen I thought we were hanging out and to be honest it's almost 9pm and I'm tired of waiting, I want to hang out with you but I feel like I'm getting leftovers". Usually a girl gets all defensive about it and pushes off and labels me an un-understanding asshole. What do you think?

relax forged, you just met this chick on Thurs. . .by my standards things are already too hot and heavy. Let her make the next step. . .don't even waste your time texting her, if she hits you back then roll with it but if not give her the "brush off" and make her wonder why youre not calling her back. Classic petty games, I hate 'em, but we all play 'em.

eazydoezit · 12-14-2008, 08:32 PM

marty_mcfly · 12-14-2008, 08:34 PM

forged... it sounds like you're getting hooked to this chick pretty quick. thats the last thing you want to happen. like what magmd said, let someone else take care of the day drama and you can be the vampire (come out at night) and instead of sucking the shit out of her, FUCK the shit out of her

Turbo>NA · 12-14-2008, 08:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xxForgedxx

Even after...

"I'd really like to make you happy"

"I really like you alot"

sleeps with me 3 times, twice drunk once sober...

constantly affectionate with me when I was around her... makes no sense

Enough said. What do you have to worry about..?

Next girl please!?

E92murdered · 12-14-2008, 08:37 PM

ahahah ! as eazy says gimme that nut.

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Originally Posted by eazydoezit

Saigon · 12-14-2008, 08:55 PM

it's cool man, you hit it already. Just play the patience game. you're getting way too needy. She's not bored but it seems like she wants someone more dominant, but you really do need to man up and tell her what YOU feel like doing instead of asking her "what do you have in mind."

skierman64 · 12-14-2008, 09:03 PM

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Originally Posted by number335

Yeah, women tend to get bored, or distracted easily.

Maybe she saw something shiny

12-14-2008, 07:43 PM	#1
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eazydoezit Front Line Infantry 33 Rep 404 Posts Drives: e92 TT AW Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: LA + The Bay iTrader: (0)	I mean girls
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12-14-2008, 07:51 PM	#8
xxForgedxx Lieutenant 603 Rep 516 Posts Drives: Slow/Fat Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: USA iTrader: (1)	I just said "Well have fun, if I'm around when you call then we can probably do something". To be frank I'm over this shit... same game different name. WAPCE = women are pure concentrated evil
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12-14-2008, 08:20 PM	#12
magmd Major General 160 Rep 5,271 Posts Drives: '06 330i Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Torrance, CA iTrader: (13) Garage List 2006 330i [0.00]	Dude. Enjoy the fact that all she wants to do is hang out after 10PM and hit it. Let some other guy pay for all the daytime drama. __________________ 2006 330i \| Black Sapphire Metallic \| Step Auto \| Navi with iDr \| Sports Pkg \|OEM Rear Spoiler \| 3M CS35 Tint \| H&R Sport Springs \| Koni Yellows \| Advan RS Racing Hypersilver: 19x9 et22 19x10 et20
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Tondtar 12 yr old Juvie 1078 Rep 881 Posts Drives: His Mom Crazy Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: El Lay iTrader: (2) Garage List 2008 (RIP in 2011) ... [0.00]	I think she is after your last $100 after reading your earlier post here. Stay away from her : http://www.e90post.com/forums/showthread.php?t=193400
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marty_mcfly Banned 97 Rep 1,209 Posts Drives: ??? Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Cali iTrader: (3)	forged... it sounds like you're getting hooked to this chick pretty quick. thats the last thing you want to happen. like what magmd said, let someone else take care of the day drama and you can be the vampire (come out at night) and instead of sucking the shit out of her, FUCK the shit out of her
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Saigon Brigadier General 234 Rep 3,525 Posts Drives: BSM E92 335i Coupe Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: SoCal iTrader: (47)	it's cool man, you hit it already. Just play the patience game. you're getting way too needy. She's not bored but it seems like she wants someone more dominant, but you really do need to man up and tell her what YOU feel like doing instead of asking her "what do you have in mind." __________________ 07' Alpine White E93 335i M-Sport \| BMW Performance \| Beige l Piano Black l Sport l Premium l Heated l Navi \| Steptronic l Comfort Access l Logic7 l iPod & USB \|
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