One vs. The Other One, Vice Versa

HRC · 03-21-2006, 06:44 PM

I've been a member here at e90post since last May. I usually never get on my soapbox, but I'm doing it now. I have seen countless 325i vs. 330i which spills into other topics such as debadging. Stupid. I know this will not make a difference in the long run, but by trying this, I can sleep at night!

I think it's a people flaw. Anyone can get their feelings hurt when attacked, regardless what you drive. I have seem both 325 and 330 people get out of hand. There will always be people with no people skills that find their way to the webboards. Just because a few bad apples rock the board doesn't mean we all can't rise above it. Name calling (on both sides) is just retarded. We need to try to ignore the ignorance and in time, the attempts will hopefully lessen. Plus, if noone reacts, usually, the stupidity of the poster's statements will be very clear when for all to see when standing alone. I have seen some good people here lower themselves in anger and frustration, sad. It's just as stupid to make insane comments about other car brands just because we don't like them. Live and let live! Can't we all just...you know!

Danny

ward · 03-21-2006, 06:47 PM

yeah, people always defending their own decisions, and everyone who chose a different car option is stupid.....

I doubt it'll ever stop

HRC · 03-21-2006, 06:52 PM

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Originally Posted by ward

yeah, people always defending their own decisions, and everyone who chose a different car option is stupid.....

I doubt it'll ever stop

Nothing wrong with anyones thoughtful opinions or defenses. It just doens't have to get personal.

Yea, it will never stop, this is an idication of a much bigger problem in our society. I guess I just wanted to vent.

Danny

sdorn · 03-21-2006, 07:18 PM

People like to feel like they are better than other people, and they like other people to know it. That is why these threads go south.

NaTuReB0Y · 03-21-2006, 07:27 PM

i'm just curious....are people in other car forums like the ones in here?

shimshimhada · 03-21-2006, 07:28 PM

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Originally Posted by NaTuReB0Y

i'm just curious....are people in other car forums like the ones in here?

No.

HRC · 03-21-2006, 07:30 PM

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Originally Posted by NaTuReB0Y

i'm just curious....are people in other car forums like the ones in here?

Yea man! It's a people flaw, not a bmw one! I was actually surprised when I started seeing this here, I thought it was only the Hondas, Acura, etc... boys. Shows how dumb I was...

Danny

shimshimhada · 03-21-2006, 07:32 PM

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Originally Posted by HRC

Yea man! It's a people flaw, not a bmw one! I was actually surprised when I started seeing this here, I thought it was only the Hondas, Acura, etc... boys. Shows how dumb I was...

Danny

And it will never go away.

jflecha · 03-21-2006, 07:34 PM

I can at least give an observation of why a blog war starts.

It would be ideal for all of us to just share advice based on our own experience or someone else's experience to answer questions or concerns or upgrades regarding our beloved E90's.

As soon as we make a personal observation and or opinion, we invite others to do the same. Most of the responses I've read in this forum are cordial and polite, then there are others that inject humor and sarcasm, some take it the wrong way and the war begins.

I could go on but I think I've said enough.

HRC · 03-21-2006, 08:13 PM

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Originally Posted by shimshimhada

And it will never go away.

Yea, I know, this kind of thing was around LONG before I was conceived and will be around a LONG time after I pass...

Danny

shragon · 03-21-2006, 10:28 PM

dumb $h!t goes on here, but it's relatively tame compared to other forums imho.

there's no problem with disagreeing, expressing your opinions, and discussing things. just do it in a civil manner.

f the trolls, keyboard warriors, and e-thugs.

larryn · 03-22-2006, 07:41 AM

There's a fine line between not responding, to appear disinterested, and responding civilly, making your alternative point.

If you let things go, they may likely occur more frequently, and become the norm. Saying something (even civilly) could paint you as a troublemaker to some.

Oz · 03-22-2006, 08:03 AM

I completely agree with you but this is going to happen no matter what. It's just human nature I think...

I think everyone here has a right to express their opinion as long as they are not insulting anyone and making useless attacks just because they don't agree with you.

HRC · 03-22-2006, 11:50 AM

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Originally Posted by lni

There's a fine line between not responding, to appear disinterested, and responding civilly, making your alternative point.

If you let things go, they may likely occur more frequently, and become the norm. Saying something (even civilly) could paint you as a troublemaker to some.

Agreed! I'm just a little worn from the personal insults, profanity, references to the male anatomy, name calling and such.

Danny

03-21-2006, 06:44 PM	#1
HRC MAUI BUILT 485 Rep 7,781 Posts Drives: 2006 330i MT Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: NORCAL iTrader: (10) Garage List 2002 E46 325i [0.00] 2012 E70 35i [0.00]	One vs. The Other One, Vice Versa I've been a member here at e90post since last May. I usually never get on my soapbox, but I'm doing it now. I have seen countless 325i vs. 330i which spills into other topics such as debadging. Stupid. I know this will not make a difference in the long run, but by trying this, I can sleep at night! I think it's a people flaw. Anyone can get their feelings hurt when attacked, regardless what you drive. I have seem both 325 and 330 people get out of hand. There will always be people with no people skills that find their way to the webboards. Just because a few bad apples rock the board doesn't mean we all can't rise above it. Name calling (on both sides) is just retarded. We need to try to ignore the ignorance and in time, the attempts will hopefully lessen. Plus, if noone reacts, usually, the stupidity of the poster's statements will be very clear when for all to see when standing alone. I have seen some good people here lower themselves in anger and frustration, sad. It's just as stupid to make insane comments about other car brands just because we don't like them. Live and let live! Can't we all just...you know! Danny __________________ Arctic/Blk Leather/Alum.Trim/MT/ZSP/Sunshades/Blk Lines/M3 Illuminated Knob/Alcantara Performance Wheel/M-E-Brake Handle/Euro Fog Switch/Koni Yellows/H&R Sport Springs/19" VMR V718's w/PS2 Tires/M-Tech Body Kit/Carbon Fiber Spoiler/Bimmian Interior Bulbs/OEM Eye Glass Tray/SSK/Alcantara Boot/Split Armrest/OEM Dual Rear Power Outlets/Rear Ashtray Delete/OEM Alum. Pedals/Osram 6000K/Brex Rings/LED Side Markers/BMS Power Box
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ward Major General 155 Rep 6,158 Posts Drives: F Join Date: May 2005 Location: T iTrader: (0)	yeah, people always defending their own decisions, and everyone who chose a different car option is stupid..... I doubt it'll ever stop
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sdorn Lieutenant 26 Rep 491 Posts Drives: 2006 Jet Black 325i Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Atlanta iTrader: (0)	People like to feel like they are better than other people, and they like other people to know it. That is why these threads go south. __________________ 2008 Sparkling Graphite 535i 2009 Land Rover LR2 2003 Porsche 911 Turbo (SOLD) 2006 Jet Black 325i (SOLD) 2001 Bullitt Mustang (450rwhp - SOLD)
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NaTuReB0Y Powered By 36DD 337 Rep 7,369 Posts Drives: 2006 E90 Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Inland Empire iTrader: (12)	i'm just curious....are people in other car forums like the ones in here? __________________ 2006 E90 330i Jet Black \| 20" WORK VS-XX \| FK452 \| H&R Sport on Koni Yellow \| REMUS QUAD
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jflecha Second Lieutenant 10 Rep 205 Posts Drives: E90 06 330i Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: The Garden State iTrader: (0) Garage List 2006 330I [0.00]	I can at least give an observation of why a blog war starts. It would be ideal for all of us to just share advice based on our own experience or someone else's experience to answer questions or concerns or upgrades regarding our beloved E90's. As soon as we make a personal observation and or opinion, we invite others to do the same. Most of the responses I've read in this forum are cordial and polite, then there are others that inject humor and sarcasm, some take it the wrong way and the war begins. I could go on but I think I've said enough. __________________ Tit-Silver 330i/STEP/SP/PP/CWP
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shragon Moderator 497 Rep 27,441 Posts Drives: BMW Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Bay Area, CA iTrader: (7)	dumb $h!t goes on here, but it's relatively tame compared to other forums imho. there's no problem with disagreeing, expressing your opinions, and discussing things. just do it in a civil manner. f the trolls, keyboard warriors, and e-thugs. __________________ www.cardomain.com/id/shragon
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larryn Lieutenant General 2148 Rep 10,176 Posts Drives: '97 332ti, '21 X5 45e, '16 GT4 Join Date: May 2005 Location: Seattle iTrader: (2)	There's a fine line between not responding, to appear disinterested, and responding civilly, making your alternative point. If you let things go, they may likely occur more frequently, and become the norm. Saying something (even civilly) could paint you as a troublemaker to some.
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Oz Lieutenant Colonel 33 Rep 1,770 Posts Drives: 2006 330i, 2004 X5 Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Wayne, NJ iTrader: (1) Garage List 2006 330i [0.00]	I completely agree with you but this is going to happen no matter what. It's just human nature I think... I think everyone here has a right to express their opinion as long as they are not insulting anyone and making useless attacks just because they don't agree with you. __________________ 2006 330i Steptronic/Alpine White/Black Leather/Burl Walnut Trim/Premium Package/iDrive/Heated Seats/Winter: STYLE 159 Blizzak LM-22 RFT/Summer: TBD 2004 X5 Steptronic/Alpine White/Grey Leather/Poplar Trim/Premium Package/Heated Seats/iPod Adapter
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