I ordered my E93 M3 last week as well (UK) with the only option being M-DCT..... as its a lease car there was quite a good discount off list but I don't benefit much from that as get stung on the finance
Went for Space Grey and Fox Red..... I hadn't seen Fox in the flesh until today so was rather happy that it looked great. The M-DCT is a massive risk for me as I've always prefered a manual but on paper at least the M-DCT sounds about as good as you can get for a semi auto!