Wow! I'm am so sorry...that is terrible. What a total focker! I would disclose everything to the police. Do you have a home alarm? If not I'd would look into having one install. Yes, the police response time probably is not the greatest, but it does draw attention to your home and it does notify the police to come and inspect your home for a break-in.
On another note, wtf is the deal with all the emotionally unstable people? I hear *ucked up stories from friends that are either dating someone or are married...What I do not understand is that most of them stay with these weirdos because they are afraid of being alone
. Is no one normal anymore?