I posted a similar thread about worrying about scratches which is really an extension of the OP's distress. There were some really kind members who offered some great advice.
http://www.1addicts.com/forums/showthread.php?t=604870
You gotta let it go and just enjoy the car. Try this for a week:
- Drive it every day.
- Push the limit of the 5500RPM break-in barrier.
- And don't wash it for those 7 days.
It'll help you get out of that OCD mode you're in right now.
Also, look at it this way... there's nothing you're going to do with the car that's going to ruin it. If you scratch it badly, you can always paint.
Now go drive it like you stole it!